Emotional Benefits of A Media Fast: Part 3

Once you’ve begun your media fast and have  started to work with your core beliefs around your personal finances, there are two more things you can do to keep your emotional state in alignment with what you want to create.  The first is to commit to a daily practice of possibility thinking.  One thing that the media loves to do is to milk all of the doom and gloom like the tabloids.  Have you ever noticed how the media focuses on the problem and why, as a result of the problem, things aren’t possible?  The media never seems to examine why the financial crisis is a good thing; they rarely look at the crumbling of our economic system as an opportunity for positive change.  

What if  it was possible for those of us going through the hardships right now of financial instability due to any number of reasons including unemployment, the stock market crash or loss of a spouses income, could see opportunity for something new?  There must be a breakdown of an old system, an old paradigm or way of being, before transformation can occur.  Could it be that the financial crisis is giving millions of people the opportunity to shift into a way of being that provides more stability, sustainability and most importantly, happiness than our currently crumbling paradigm of ‘work hard, make lots of money, buy lots of stuff, die unfulfilled ‘ ? 

A good friend of mine gave me great perspective.  He said, “You may not have much money right now, but what you do have is time… and you can do a lot with that! ”  That’s possibility thinking.  As the saying goes, make lemonade out of lemons.  I’m choosing to spend this time that I normally wouldn’t have to focus on doing things for my business like list building and learning how to be more fluent with using social media.  What new opportunities are possible for you right now despite your situation (or better yet, because of your situation)?  

Finally, it’s important to find the time each day to express gratitude .  I’ve talked about this before, and find it such a fundamental component to happiness and fulfillment that I can’t say it enough… gratitude has the ability to shift your emotional state in an instant.  After all, true happiness comes from our inner state of being, not from our financial situation, our possessions, or our love life.   But you already know this so, need I say more?

Lisa Engles uses several integrative healing techniques in her work as a certified life coach including EFT, music therapy and movement based healing arts.  She has a degree in Exercise Physiology and Kinesiolgy, and has spent many years in personal study of  consciousness and the new sciences.  She is available for private coaching as well as corporate presentations, workshops and seminars.  Email lisa@innerstatecoaching.com for more information.

Emotional Benefits of A Media Fast: Part 1

Last week I was driving and listening to NPR.  Since I don’t have a t.v., I take advantage of my drive time to listen to the news on the radio.  On this day in particular, I became acutely aware of how much time is spent in the news on the negative aspects of our countries economic state and that I’d become addicted to hearing about it.  At that moment I realized that I’m over it and that I need to make choices that keep me in an emotionally empowered state!  I’m tired of all of the focus on doom and gloom.  I’m sick of all the reports about how the economy is affecting peoples emotional health.  Of course it is!  But it sure doesn’t seem to help to listen to more stories about the failing stock market and bailout plans.  So I’ve decided to go on a media fast, and I’m officially inviting anyone else who wishes to join me.  

What is a media fast?  Simply put, it’s eliminating all media: news, radio and newpaper from your daily routine.  Think of it as a diet for your emotional well-being.  You’re getting rid of as much emotionally toxic information from your life as possible for a period of time in order to regain emotional balance, clarity and peace of mind.  

Why go on a media fast?  As I mentioned in the beginning of this post, the news is just as emotionally addictive to our minds as watching The Biggest Loser, Desperate Housewives, The Office or whatever your favorite show of choice is.  The difference is that more often than not, the news spends a majority of the time focusing on problems and what’s going wrong in our world.  When we buy into the bad news, it affects us emotionally.  When emotions such as fear, anxiety, and stress get linked to thoughts like “This is the worst recession since the Great Depression, and I’m losing all my money”, it creates neural networks in the brain which become programed beliefs.  

By eliminating media from our emotional diet so to speak, we open ourselves to the opportunity to see our lives from a different perspective.  Anytime I’m working with a client who is in a pattern of focusing on what’s not right in their life or believes that it’s impossible to change a situation I ask them “What if the opposite where true?”.  Just by asking that question, I break the doom and gloom spell.  

So if you’re ready to reset your perspective and regain emotional clarity and balance here’s how to begin your media fast:

1.  Eliminate All Media.  I suggest a 40-day fast, as this number is connected with ancient spiritual teachings and is believed to be both the number of testing oneself and the number which signifies revival and renewal.  Of course, any time period will do but to get the full benefit of this fast, try committing to at least 21-days of not watching the news, listening to news radio or reading the newspaper.  If you really want to test yourself, eliminate all t.v. (believe me, it’s worth it!).

2.  Eliminate Discussion About Economy and Finances.  During your fast, also commit to avoiding conversation about the economy or your personal finances with others.  It may be hard, and you may even catch yourself slipping here and there, especially during casual conversation.  The key here is to create awareness around what you’re choosing to focus your thoughts on.  

A media fast is a powerful practice.  In part 2 of this blog I’ll talk specifically about how to work with thoughts and beliefs that may come up for you during your fast.  

Lisa is available for private coaching as well as presentations, classes and workshops.  For more information, visit www.innerstatecoaching.com or email lisa@innerstatecoaching.com .